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How to Kiss a Girl to Make Her Want You More

by | Love and Romance

Last updated Jun 11, 2022 | Published on Jun 10, 2022

A lot of times, the first couple of romantic or sexual encounters determine whether or not attraction will remain or will leave. Kiss a girl right the first few times, and she is going to be more drawn to you. Kiss her wrong, and she begins to question if you really are worth it. This is how to kiss a girl to make her want you more. They’re simple, easily overlooked strategies but quite effective: 

1. She Has to Want to First

So, to be honest, kisses aren’t magic. You don’t go about kissing women who don’t already want you and expect the kiss to reset their brains. At best, you are going to get a terrible glare and a scoff. At worst, you are going to get smacked in the face. 

Before you even think about kissing that girl, be sure that she does want you. Be sure that you have spent time with her and she is fine with you kissing her. 

Related: How to kiss a girl? 5 Ways to Kiss Your girl Like a Pro

2. Be Confident

Confidence always pulls women close. I understand that this is likely the first or second time you both will be kissing. But still, you have to be confident about it. 

Don’t be that shy guy who can’t even initiate a kiss. Be very confident. She wants you to be confident. That is going to make her want you. 

Related: How to French Kiss a Girl

3. Initiate Perfectly

The depth of the kiss depends on how it is initiated most times. A poorly initiated kiss is going to become somewhat laborious somewhere around the middle, and this is going to put her off. She won’t want to kiss you again. 

Lean towards her. Put your hands on her chin, and lean in to kiss her if you want to make her want you more. You can hold her nape, spreading your palms to reach the back of her ears. 

Related: How to know the right moment to kiss a girl

4. Take Charge, But Let her Some Room

The goal isn’t to be domineering but masculine. The masculine has no problems with taking charge. And when it comes to this kiss, you should not. 

Lead the kiss, and let her follow you. 

If you want to initiate a French kiss, get right to it but make sure she wants to French kiss too. 

Rub her body. Grab her waist. Hold at her face. Kiss her like you mean it. Kiss her like you are telling her that she can always depend on you to be there for her. 

Related: Perfect ways to kiss a girl you love

5. Be Very Touchy

To do this, you will have to be very involved in the kiss emotionally. It is a great thing for men to invest some emotion in sexual activities, no matter how small. 

As you kiss her, touch her. Lower your hand and grab her butt. Rub across her back. If you think it is cool, make some sounds. Just as sounds make sex a lot more intense, they sure can make the kiss intense as well.

If you want to do the incredible, lift her off her feet, and kiss her as she hugs you, suspended in the air. No woman will forget that if you do it right. She will want you so much that you might even start to get confused. 

Photo by Joanna Nix-Walkup on Unsplash

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By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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