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How Men Fall In Love

by | Love

Published on Aug 4, 2022

When men fall in love, they offer themselves willingly in different spectacular ways. They are kind, gentle, yielding, and easy to live with. Men in love show this by how they handle themselves when they are with or without you, their words, and their actions.

While I explicitly address how men fall in love, it also applies to how many women fall in love too. Men and women in love exhibit compelling and almost closely related attributes.

So let’s get into how men fall in love, according to a relationship expert.

1. He pleases and makes his woman happy

When men fall in love, they try hard to please and make you happy. They don’t care if it means sacrificing their own happiness to achieve that. 

If a guy is in love with you and notices you’re not happy, he’ll drop everything he is doing and find the cause of your unhappiness. When he finds the reason, he will fix it to make you smile again.

2. He creates time for you

A man who falls deeply in love with you will always make himself available. When opportunities to see or spend time with you arise, he will make himself available.

No matter how busy he is, he creates time for you. Call him and tell him you’re lonely; no matter how tight his schedule is, he will find ways to see you or make it up to you if he can’t come.

Read: 12 Things Men Do When They Find Their Soulmate

3. He shows a self-sacrificing spirit

When men fall in love, they contribute time, effort, and material resources to ensure you get what you need. A man in love puts your needs and preferences ahead of his own.

A self-sacrificing spirit of willingness to please you will be evident in his actions. He will go the extra mile to please you. He will find ways to assist you with different house chores so you have time and energy to do the things you enjoy.

4. A man in love tries out new things

Men who fall in love find creative ways to keep the spark alive in a relationship. They tend to try out new things. 

A guy in love with you will like to cuddle, share his fantasies, play a game, cook, dance, walk together and talk about important things. The relationship will be a lot of fun. It’s never going to be all about sex. It’ll be far more than that.

5. He has a strong connection with you

Men crave intimacy with the women they fall in love with. They share their thoughts, emotions, and feeling with you. They don’t mind if it means being vulnerable to you. 

There will be a special bond between them and their women. Men who have fallen in love with you will base their love on physical attraction, family relationships, and mutual enjoyment of your companionship.

Read: 10 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On

6. He accepts his woman for who she is

When men fall in love, they accept you for who you are despite your flaws. They also don’t care about your past; instead, they care about your present and future. For them, it is a fresh start, and let’s make this one right.

That doesn’t mean you should hide your past from them because if you do, it will be like a betrayal. What I mean is that you have nothing to worry about after revealing who you were before meeting him, and he still goes on to love you. 

When a guy loves you deeply, he will never use your past to judge you; nothing anyone says will diminish his appreciation for you.

7. His love does not flicker when turbulent times come

When men fall in love, come rain, come shine, he will weather the storm with you. His love and passion for you do not flicker when turbulent times come.

Like a flame burning inside the protection of a lantern, this type of love burns within a man’s heart when he is in love with you. His love for you stays the same and is not snuffed out by financial or health problems, quarrels, or opposition from others. Rather than dying, the flame burns brighter each time something tries to extinguish it. 

8. He sees a future with you

A guy in love values stability and permanence in a relationship. He will propose to marry you or discuss moving in together. If he’s falling for you, he will look for ways to make things permanent with you.

A man who has already fallen in love with you will discuss your long-term life goals. He will ask deep questions about you to understand you better and know what motivates you.

9. He seeks your opinion before making decisions

When men fall in love, he includes you in all his plans. Whatever he wants to do or buy, like going on vacation, buying a new mobile phone or a piece of furniture, he asks your opinion first to know what you think. If you like it, he goes ahead and purchases it, but if you don’t, he won’t bother going for it. 

He seeks your approval for most of the things he does or wants. For every important decision he takes, like career decisions or moving into a new home, a man who has fallen in love with you will ask you first.


When men fall in love, they unite with their women in thoughts and feelings. They make decisions both important and unimportant decisions with you.

10. He forgives you easily

When men fall in love, they are quick to forgive minor mistakes. They understand that in relationships, misunderstandings and differences are inevitable. For this reason, they recognize that forgiveness is essential for the relationship to last. 

study in 2011 reveals that couples who forgive one another are more likely to enjoy a more satisfying romantic relationship than those who do not.

So when couples in love practice forgiveness, they tend to enjoy their relationship more because they have love and understanding for one another. This is a unique attribute of what men display when they fall in love.

Read: 14 Ways To Ask for Forgiveness (and Get It)

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By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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